Day 4 of my husband's deployment, and already I feel heartbroken, and miss him like crazy. Yesterday was especially difficult, because I had to spend our 5th anniversary without him. We're being watched over though. Friends and family have reached out, calling, writing emails and notes of comfort, and giving us strength.
I spent the day of our anniversary keeping busy, cleaning, and taking care of the girls. That evening, we celebrated together, and had a girls night at home. I bought takeout from my favorite Italian restaurant, and rented a Chick Flick. The Hannah Montana movie, actually. I never would have guessed that silly movie would give me advice I needed to hear. She sings a song called The Climb.
Here's the music video, if you've never heard the song
The sweet and simple theme of the song reminded me that to stay happy during this lonely time, I need to find joy in the journey. It's not about enduring a challenging time, eyes focused on when it's over, it's about being happy no matter what circumstances you're in. Little Miley caught that presice theme in her song. Never thought I'd be among one of the screaming Hannah fans, but last night, I cheered and danced right along with my little girls, and celebrated the best 5 years of my life.
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5 months ago
I had never heard that song, but I loved it. It really does have a great message. I have been thinking about you, and hope that all goes well while Scott is gone. Jeff has not deployed, but has traveled a lot, and it is always a challenge when he is gone, but is great when he gets back. Keep your head up.
ReplyDeleteSounds like you are doing a great job of keeping it all together Liz! The girls are so lucky to have such a wonderful Mommy. I know this is hard, but if you can do just what you said and find joy in these circumstances without Scott you will find that the challenge of it all will lessen. You are so amazing and my thoughts and prayers are with you. (Any by the way, if you are ever feeling like coming back to good old MS for a few days, we have an extra bedroom for you and the girls!! It'd be fun!)
ReplyDeleteAmen, sister! Great post.
ReplyDeleteYou are in my prayers Liz. Two months go by faster than you think. Dave and I couldn't be together for our Anniversary this year but we were able to celebrate later! We can always celebrate!
ReplyDeleteA friend's husband left last week for 6 months and I thought I'm so lucky Dave is gone for only 80 days! I know a ton of guys that have to be gone for a year.
Have fun with the girls and your family. And stay busy!
Hey Liz, it's Adrienne. I know exactly how you feel. Thanks for sharing "The Climb" in your post. That song is such an inspiration even if it is Hannah Montana. :) If you ever need to talk, I'm here for you...
ReplyDeletehey lizzie-butter. love the song too.
ReplyDeleteHey Liz! It's me again! I just read Karla and Justin's blog and I really liked Karla's last post. It's about being a military wife. I saw you have them in your list so if you get a chance read it! It's a good one! Love ya!
ReplyDeleteHey, thanks for your comment on my blog, and yes they are going to be bringing Rob home early for the baby's birth. He's going to be back the very beginning of Oct. and I'm due Oct. 21st so.....I'm just praying I don't kick off early. Rob gets to stay with us over Christmas but has to miss our 5th anniversary too in Feb. I guess this type of life is going to be a lot of hits and misses. I'm glad that we have other people who go through the same things so we aren't alone. Anyway, I hope you gals are all doing well and have fun planning some of those activities. They have been really good for us. Lots of Love!
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